More Than a Race: The Enduring Impact of Ben’s Memorial Mile and Community
Festival
By Marc Sheforgen
Ben Silver stood just 5-foot-3, but to those who watched him run, he was larger than life. A
high school phenom from Downers Grove North, Silver shattered records with grit and heart, earning a
reputation not only as one of the state’s top distance runners, but also as a kind,
inclusive teammate who made everyone feel like they belonged.
“Ben was this wonderful kid who didn’t believe in bullying people,” said his mother,
Jamie Lee Silver. “He was just this kind human who made everybody feel connected.”
Today, a decade after Ben’s death from suicide, the event that bears his name has become one of
the most meaningful gatherings in Downers Grove. Ben’s Memorial Mile and Community Festival
— now in its tenth year — returns on Saturday, August 9, transforming Fishel Park into a hub
of music, community and mental health advocacy.
“This is not just for Downers Grove,” said Larry Lifson, a Silver family friend who helps
organize the event. “It’s for an incredibly important cause — to let people know that
the resources are out there and you’re not the only one going through this.”
Ben was diagnosed with schizophrenia during college — a complex, often misunderstood illness that
the Memorial Mile now works to bring awareness and compassion to.
Celebrating Life, Raising Awareness
Ben’s Memorial Mile has evolved into a full-fledged community festival with live bands, food
vendors, games, a raffle and a trio of road races that now wind through closed-off downtown streets.
“The village is incredibly supportive of what we’re doing,” Lifson said.
The running begins at 4 p.m. with a 100-meter dash for young children, followed by an open mile for
walkers and casual runners and culminating in an elite mile for more competitive athletes. Partnering
with the Chicago Area Runners Association, the race is now an officially sanctioned and chip-timed event
— complete with a professional balloon-ringed finish line and awards ceremony.
Throughout the park, booths from mental health organizations — including NAMI DuPage, a longtime
beneficiary of the event’s fundraising — will offer resources and education. The Brain &
Behavior Research Foundation is also a major beneficiary. Since its inception, Ben’s Memorial Mile
has raised more than $200,000 for these causes.
Running Toward Connection
Ben Silver’s legacy lives on not only in the races he once dominated but also in the spirit of
the event that honors him.
“He was a running phenom,” Jamie Silver said. “People who didn’t even know him
would come to watch him run because he ran with such heart.”
But more than his athleticism, it’s Ben’s warmth that defines the Memorial Mile.
“Ben would mentor the younger kids,” Lifson recalled. “Even though he was the star,
nobody ever felt intimidated by him.”
That sense of inclusion continues today.
“The warmth is palpable,” Lifson said. “You can really feel the community.”
From raffle prizes and live music to quiet moments of remembrance, Ben’s Memorial Mile is, as his
mother put it, “a warm event that everybody is welcomed to.”
And it remains deeply personal.
“This is organized and supported by dedicated members of the community, many of whom knew Ben
like family,” Jamie Silver said. “All work hard to make Ben’s Memorial Mile a fun,
meaningful and impactful event.”
For more information or to register, visit www.bensmemorialmile.com.